• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

Elle Olive & Co.

Lifestyle, Food and Family

Menu
  • Home
  • Lifestyle
    • For the Home
    • DIY
    • Beauty & Style
    • Health
    • Travel
    • Technology
  • Entertaining
  • Food
    • Recipes
  • Parenting
    • For Kids
  • About
  • Partner/ PR
  • Disclosure
  • Contact
Home ⇒ Parenting ⇒ 10 Tips for Leaving the House with Multiple Kids

Parenting

10 Tips for Leaving the House with Multiple Kids

Mar 19, 2013 Stephanie

When I had my son 3 1/2 years ago, I was determined to keep up with my normal lifestyle. And I did. Baby in tow, two weeks post C-section, I was out and about. I didn’t know it at the time, but it was easy with one.

Fast forward three years – and it was a huge  slap in the face when I had my twin girls. I went from one child to three. I remember feeling both overjoyed and horrified at the same time. 

At first, I met my fear with the “I will never go anywhere” approach. This ends up becoming survival mode – where a successful day is one where I changed out of my pajamas into more glorified pajamas (i.e. yoga attire). Any trips out were coordinated with the Grandmas and I would rush to run errands in between feedings and during naps.

12 pounds later and a whole lot of unhappiness, I decided that this was not going to work at at all. Quite simply, insanity was creeping up trying to entertain three kids at home ALL DAY LONG.  I knew I had to start getting out of the house more. 

So, it was with much fear and anticipation, I slowly starting venturing out – And not just to hit the drive-thru (a strategy that definitely has it’s place!), but to actually go into stores, attend a story-time and put my children around other people…in PUBLIC! 

Now, I’m not going to lie, it’s not easy. I literally feel an adrenaline rush at the beginning of every outing, even to this day. The ‘not-knowing’ how it will go is intensely scary.  But, I find that it’s not too bad once you get brave. There will be mishaps and meltdowns, but it sure beats the entire day inside…

Some tips for how I survive being out with three small children: 

#1: Just go. Don’t think too much, or you’ll chicken out. Just do it.

#2: Pack for battle: Be armed with sippy cups, toddler hush money (i.e. snacks), and have a variety of small toys/gadgets. An iPhone can work like a charm at stopping a tantrum in it’s tracks. 

#3  Leave no walkers – if at all possible. Walkers turn into runners…often running away from you…in a parking lot.

#4 If you must have a walker, perfect the death grip hold on any child walking and learn how to steer a cart or stroller one handed. 

#5  Know the stores that have plenty of the child friendly carts. Sure you look like a circus coming,  but everyone is strapped in and no one can run anywhere! No child carts? Get creative – two in the basket, one in the child seat or make use of baby wearing. Some moms of twins have actually perfected the simultaneous shopping cart and stroller maneuver. I have yet to attempt this.

 


#6 Set your kids up for success – I make use of the self-checkouts, because I can distract the my oldest by letting him help me. I can easily prevent checkout meltdowns (why do they always wait til checkout?) with less judging stares from strangers. I once had my son FLIP his lid when the cashier put his granola bars into the bag. Clearly, she had to know he wanted to hold them.

#7 Don’t overdo it, and know when to abort mission. I consider any shopping trip where I have gotten the necessities to be a success. Don’t get greedy and try to stop for that latte, too. I usually have a one-stop rule. 

#8 Keep it simple.  A stop at a friend’s house, a playground, the train station, a walk to hte park to eat lunch or just a drive are all ways to break up that day and get a little fresh air.

#9 Rewards – Keeping my kids happy is pretty important, and isn’t that what it’s all about?  I reward successful trips out with an easy stop -like the train station for my three year old. If he let mommy shop at the store, we swing by the train station to wave as it comes in. Hey…whatever works.  

Goodluck!


How do you manage to get out with multiple children? 


Share this Post
Pin on Pinterest
Pinterest
0Tweet about this on Twitter
Twitter
Share on Facebook
Facebook
0Share on StumbleUpon
StumbleUpon
0Email this to someone
email
Share on Tumblr
Tumblr
0

Related Posts

  • Feeding a Picky Eater | Tips & Tricks
  • Teaching Young Children About Saving Money
  • Nighttime Potty Training with Confidence
  • Essentials for Twins & Printable Newborn Daily Tracker
Previous Post
The Benefits of Cord Blood Banking: Deciding if it is Right For You
Next Post
Is Your Child Safe? Tips for Medicine Safety from Safe Kids Worldwide

Reader Interactions

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Primary Sidebar

Welcome!

Stephanie Caruso

Thanks for stopping by - I'm so glad you're here! I'm Stephanie and I love sharing simple ways to live -- at home, in the kitchen, on-the-go or with the family. So grab a cup of coffee and stay a while - I hope you find something that inspires you. 

Read more >

Let’s Connect

Facebook google-plus instagram pinterest Twitter YouTube email

Get Inspired

Have all posts and newsletters delivered to your email inbox!

Latest Posts

  • Printable Holiday Gift Tags with New Jersey Lottery Holiday Games
  • Tips for Hiring Tutors or Pod Teachers
  • Easy Guide for Decluttering Your Home
  • 10 Packing & Moving Tips
  • Increase Your Blog’s Traffic : 5 Quick Steps

Blog Archives

Lost & Found

 




 

Everywhere
 


Ahalogy Badge

Copyright© 2021 Elle Olive & Co. | Lifestyle, Food and Family